Well…
… one thing I’ve definetly decided about JG is that I’m going to keep a healthy distance, I don’t want to play silly games with her, and while I like her as a friend, there is nothing else there and won’t be. I also know that I definetly do NOT want to be anywhere near her when her husband is gone for 5 mo. She’s gonna go nuts and I don’t wanna be the person caught in the middle and while I have alot of willpower I know my own limits… and that’s a non-do-able situation. So avoid it, keep it public and phone. No crashing at her place, no time alone chatting, etc. I feel bad for her, I don’t think I would want to be in her position, but on the other side of it, i’m intelligent enough to avoid getting in the position she is in the first place. Shrug.