Well…
… on the honestly giving it a real try thing, I updated my picture (even though they could be alot better) and updated all my text on the personals sites… this is what i put in:
Title: In Shakespeare’s Taming of the Shrew…
Personal Text: Hortensio says, “Kindness in women, not their beauteous looks, shall win my love.” Shakespeare spoke my mind through Hortensio and the ages. I enjoy all genres of music and enjoy most forms of theatre and the arts. Indoor activities and outdoor activities are both enjoyable and I am always willing to try something new. I enjoy spending time at home and getting out for a weekend adventure. I’m not a television sports fan, but am usually willing to join a casual game with friends. I believe the most important thing in life is to be able to respect and learn from the choices you make on a daily basis.
What I want: The important things in a relationship for me are mutual trust, respect, friendship, and love. I enjoy being able to have a quality conversation with my significant other about anything and ideally she would be willing to express her opinions, desires, and concerns to me. Being an animal lover is a major plus as I’ve always had pets and they are an important part of my life. Last but not least, I am looking for someone who will not only be my significant other but also a significant part of my life.
I think that says most everything I want to say and it’s a good bit shorter than what I had before :) good stuff.